How to Deal with a Trauma: 7 Steps to Take After a Car Accident

PTSD, trauma, somatic experiencing, healing trauma, trauma healingMinor car accidents are one of the many little traumas we encounter in life. What may seem minor at the time, however, can become something major if the effects of the trauma are ignored. We can deal with these traumas with a very easy technique that will stop them from becoming big traumas that stay in the body and wreak havoc later in life.

In the act of living, we constantly encounter events in our lives that are challenging. In trauma, a challenge is any event that is perceived as a threat and causes us to “rise to the occasion” to deal with it. That is, we summon all our strength, focus our attention, and direct our actions to bring the challenge to a satisfactory conclusion. When we meet the challenge successfully, we feel strong. It was a little trauma. If we don’t, it can impact our wellbeing for years to come–a big trauma.

So let’s say on the way to the supermarket, you round a corner and find the traffic has come to a sudden stop—too sudden for you to stop. You rear-end the car in front of you. Yikes! What now?

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Instant Therapy with the Touch of a Finger

By Pamela Mortimer

There’s somethPTSD, trauma, somatic experiencing, healing trauma, trauma healinging to be said for traditional therapies, particularly if the patient has a life threatening need. However, the age old practice of self healing has its own merits.

“I Can Make You Thin” by Paul McKenna, a new television show on TLC, has introduced a simple but powerful technique to the viewing public. It involves using meridian pressure points to release blocked energy. Actually, the technique is very old, dating back thousands of years in the form of qi gong and acupressure among other remedies. But the new, abbreviated method can be used by an individual, at home, at no cost.

The current version of the therapy is known as Emotional Freedom Technique or EFT. It was popularized by engineer Gary Craig, a man who has devoted his life to bringing the technique to people in every walk of life. People may discover the technique and applications – for free – at emofree.com.

It works like this: When a person experiences a negative emotion, there is a disturbance in the body’s energy system. Many compare it to electric shock or the “zzzt!” when there is a short in the system. Those negative emotions, including fear, trauma, anger, phobias, negative behavior patterns, etc., can be erased by correcting the errant path of the electrical current. It’s much like rewiring a lamp but easier. Continue reading

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Combat Trauma on HBO

Combat trauma is the subject of a new HBO documentary called Wartorn: 1861-2010. With archival photographs and footage, it shows how PTSD has had many names over the years. Civil War: hysteria, soldier’s exhaustion; WWI: shell-shock; WWII: combat fatigue, lack of intestinal fortitude; Viet Nam, Gulf War, Iraq, Afghanistan: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. The power of the film comes from interviewing the survivors of war and their families and attaching a stream of tortured faces and stories of broken lives to the disorder. So many more than just the soldiers are damaged by war.

The film does not offer solutions nor hint at treatments, which is not in its scope. But it does show why the victims do not seek help, preferring to “buck up” rather than seem weak. Unfortunately, uncontrollable rage, anxiety, and suicide are all too often the results of trying to carry the burden alone.

If you know of someone who was changed by their experiences in war or a family who has a loved one in trouble after returning from war, have them watch this important film hosted by James Gandolfini. Look in your local TV listings to find out when it is showing. I’m sure it will also be on video someday soon. But don’t wait. Time is not the friend of those suffering from combat trauma.

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SE Trauma Therapy Explained by Peter Levine

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This is a great video of the creator of Somatic Experiencing using a slinky to explain how the nervous systems reacts to trauma. Levine has a way of taking something very technical (neurobiology) and making it easy to understand. Please comment or share.

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Future Trauma Effects on 33 Chilean Miners

The whole world watched with hope and anticipation as the 33 Chileans trapped in a collapsed mine were rescued. We all experienced the joy and relief as they emerged from the 22-inch wide tube that saved them.

But what can the miners expect to feel in the days following their ordeal? Besides the injuries they suffered, which will heal with time, the trauma of the event may haunt them for years to come.

Trauma is the body’s biological reaction to a life threatening event and the physical responses the brain sends to the body for one purpose–survival. If the movements these responses trigger are not completed, or if they are ineffective, the signals from the brain will continue to fire off messages to the body to protect itself that will develop into various symptoms later in life–sometimes much later. From the nature of this calamity, we can predict to a certain extent what may crop up later. Continue reading

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“Not Belonging” Trauma

The desire to belong is common to most mammals and inherent in all human beings. As individuals we behave in accordance with the desires and norms of our groups in order to belong or fit in. Our beliefs and actions are aligned with this group.

The strongest group we are attached to is our family of origin. After that, our identifications link us to groups that represent our cultural background: family religions, racial and ethnic backgrounds we were born into, the people in the area we come from, our state, our nation. The values of each of these groups exert an influence on our own values and behaviors.

Sometimes, however, we must break or disconnect from  a group. If we marry someone from another faith and convert, we leave the religious group we were previously attached to–this may even include the family. Or if someone is homosexual (in the U.S.) he/she must disconnect from the family values, the family’s religion, and quite often the peer group in which he/she was raised. This disconnection may not be an overt break; it may only be internal. But even so, trauma results whenever we leave a group.

These breaks with the groups to which we formerly belonged will cause guilt (from within) and often shame (from without). This is another level of trauma. As justified as we are in making these breaks, they will take a toll on us emotionally and physically and affect our relationships.

These are subtle traumas that cause untold suffering until they are addressed and healed. While Somatic Experiencing can help the individual release these effects, Family Constellations has the added bonus of being able to resolve the traumas between the individual and the group they left. Together, the two form a deep, soul-expanding whole.

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Pronking, Trauma, and Soaring Again

Pronking is a behavior seen in nature, where an animal will repeatedly jump high and bound around as if in joy or ecstasy. There is such energy and enthusiasm in its leaps, it almost seems to be trying to leap into the sky to soar away. What possesses them to do this?

After a prey animal escapes the attack of a predator and finds itself safe, it will start to tremble and shake as if still in terror from its close call with death. What actually happens is that its nervous system is discharging the intense energy that was sent to its limbs to help it escape the jaws of its enemy. Once safe, animals in the wild will naturally release the energy from this survival response through their shaking. The release of this energy is one reason they are not traumatized. The trauma is literally shaken off.

Having successfully survived and discharged the trauma, the released energy surges through its body and energizes its muscles with strength and resilience. Its brain has also learned from the experience and now has new resources and neural pathways to help it when it is attacked again. And with this blast of energy, the animal leaps high into the sky over and over again, racing about in what looks like a celebration. It can now soar again.

When animals in captivity and people suffer trauma, they do not go through this energy discharge and suffer later with pain, sleeplessness, trouble eating, sexual dysfunction, etc.–trauma. But people can learn how to allow this natural discharge to take place. They can even learn how to discharge traumas from way in the past. And when they do, they will feel the same strength, resiliency, and surge of energy the animals in the wild experience. People may not pronk, but they can soar again.

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Trauma and the Brain: Helping Children Heal

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This is a simple video that explains how children can be resilient even with developmental traumas from childhood. It then talks about what we can do to help children today.

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Overcoming Trauma Video

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John Breeding Discusses Healing Trauma (15 mins.)

A very gentle, helpful discussion of the psychology of trauma and what to do. Breeding discusses Levine’s work and how effective it is in helping trauma. He even discusses trauma and children as a way to understand other types of trauma.

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Somatic Psychology

The word somatic means “living body” in the ancient Greek. The field of somatic psychology focuses on the intricate relationship between our bodies and our minds—and with the many ways that our bodies display our psychological and emotional histories, past traumas, and interpersonal dynamics. Somatic psychology practitioners recognize that past traumatic experiences are often reflected in body language, posture, and mannerisms and may lead to physical symptoms such as chronic pain, headaches, digestive or immune problems, hormonal disruptions, sexual dysfunction, and other neurological or physical symptoms later in life. In that sense, somatic psychology practitioners believe that the body often “speaks” for us, even though we may have forgotten the painful memories or wish we could. ~ L Kessler

Somatic psychology practitioners may use a combination of both traditional psychotherapy and various “body-focused” therapies such as breath, movement, body awareness, and nonverbal communication to help clients draw on the intelligence of their body in the process of personal growth and change. This holistic mind-body approach has been shown particularly effective for helping clients coping with post traumatic stress (PTSD) or other trauma, but it is also used successfully for more common mental and emotional challenges such as depression, anxiety, grief, relationship issues, and other life challenges.

As recent developments in neuroscience have demonstrated the fundamental connection between mind and body, Somatic Psychology has quickly gained mainstream acceptance, and Somatic Experiencing is probably one of the most effective of all trauma therapies. Created by Peter Levine, a psychologist who studied the survival responses in wild prey animals, Somatic Experiencing is gentle and thorough in its ability to melt away the effects of the survival response that remains after an overwhelming experience. This neurological remnant is the trauma that manifests in the body years, if not decades, after the event that triggered it.

His work has been validated and supported by the latest in neurological mapping and imaging techniques.

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